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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Unknown userMember22 Feb 2020, 7:37 pm AEDT

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How are you feeling today @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor22 Feb 2020, 7:47 pm AEDT

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Hi @Former-Member

Feeling tired

Saw mum today , going to keep her in for a few more days then we will have to take her to the hospital for redressing of her arm

Have a cataract in my left blind eye which is starting to ache more , have to see a specialist about it ad the pressure is too high

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Unknown userMember22 Feb 2020, 8:38 pm AEDT

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I do hope you can get some relief @Shaz51 .

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Shaz51Senior Contributor23 Feb 2020, 5:40 pm AEDT

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Hello and hugs @Former-Member , @Adge , @outlander , @Determined , @Smc , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Bunniekins , @Faith-and-Hope , @eth , @Jay-e , @Mrsjones

Sorry I have not being much support at the moment

Sooo much is going on between me , MIL, my mum and Mr shaz

Having trouble with my new computer not adfing my old email address

Rang the doctor today about my mum , waiting for a reply

Went to visit mum today and aunty was there telling mum a few things

But mum has one thing in mind and that is going home

We will have to be take her to hospital for redressing

Trying to get blue care to help or agedcare to help but finding it very hard

Awwwwwweeee

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Unknown userMember23 Feb 2020, 5:50 pm AEDT

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Hugs @Shaz51 ... you are dealing with so much ... and doing a damned fine job of it.

I only wish it were your turn to get taken care of Shaz. Just for a change. Please ensure you know when you've had enough Shaz, and pull back. You are equally (or more) important as everyone else Shaz.

Im proud of you for seeking help from Blue or Aged Care. Fingers crossed one of them come to the party, to take some pressure off you.

Sherry 😀💕

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Unknown userMember23 Feb 2020, 6:09 pm AEDT