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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Owlunar, @Shaz51, dementia is odd. Sometimes it changes the personality, sometimes it seems to bring out the strongest underlying characteristics of the person to a greater degree. My Dad's "sweet gentleman" character has really come to the front (along with the cheeky give-you-a-ribbing aspect). Sound like your @Shaz51 Mum's underlying generosity is front and fore.

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hello @Smc , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @outlander , @Bunniekins , @Jacques , @Determined , @octavia ,m @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope

today I saw mum and she was soo worried about me last night xoxo she had vibes

well I was not feeling good and went to bed at 8pm

she was soo glad to see me at lunch time , big hugs xoxo

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hope your feeling better today @Shaz51

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yes and no my sister @outlander

I took osteo paracetamol today at lunch time

tired now but ok

how are you my sister xxxx

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im glad your a little better @Shaz51
heres hoping that youll be able to sleep a little easier and feel better tomorrow.
maybe a few rest days are in order?

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yes not tomorrow my sister @outlander , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @Smc , @Former-Member

6 hours cleaning job abd then 2 lawns to mow --- arrgggggg

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that's a lot to do! @Shaz51 I hope youll be able to fit some me time in there too though.

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not tomorrow my sister @outlander

i know my mum will be upset about this xxxx

we will get home by 5pmi hope after leaving the house at 7-30am @Smc . @Owlunar . @Appleblossom . @Former-Member

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My mum was sooo pleased to see me today @Smc , @Former-Member , xx

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Hi @Shaz51

I hope you are okay - it sounds as if you are wearing a bit thin.

You have a lot happening - I hope you can fit some time in there for yourself too

And take care of Poor Little Kidney - I think he gets pretty tired at times

I really care about my Little Family - up there in Queensland

Dec - your second Mum

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