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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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had a very busy week and worked yesterday morning

today I had morning tea with my mum , aunty and cousin

and this afternoon we mowed and cleaned up our yard

this week will be a lot better my second mum @Owlunar

fingers crossed

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@Shaz51 ❤

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@Sherry , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Dec , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1 , @Smc , @Former-Member , @Bunniekins , @octavia , @eth , @Former-Member , @Adge , @frog

wow today was different

mr shaz went and mowed a big lawn while I cleaned mum`s house and did lots of jobs for the morning for her

had a lovely cuppa with her first , it was soo nice

and she loved it

and then i did the house work , washed the floors , did her washing , watered her plants , ect , etc

then we sat together talking until mr shaz came and picked me up

then we went home and had lunch

and I did bookwork while mr shaz mowed the lawn next door

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Productive day yesterday lovely @Shaz51

Enjoy today too and have a cuppa for me

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i love my grandmas/ mum`s house

@frog, @outlander , @Owlunar , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Determined

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@Shaz51 💙💙

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Hi @Shaz51

I can see you there adding supports - good work - I have come into the forum late today and I am skimming over the top but you mention loving your Mum's/Granma's house - that's so great - I never liked my parents home - it's long been sold now and I am wondering about the family that bought it - maybe my parents' constant renovations made it more comfortable but that only happened after I had left home. It was draughty and crowded.

I am glad you enjoy the houses in your family - Dec

Bursting at the sides - whew

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hello @Owlunar

it was grandma`s house when she moved up here in 1935

mum and her siblings were brought up there until mum got married

mum and i moved into grandmas house when i was 16 until i got married

and then we inherited dad`s house, which has too many bad memories for me and my mum until i was 11 when we left , so I could sell dad`s house no worries

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Hi again @Shaz51

Yes - of course - sell Dad's house but I hope you can hang onto your Mum's place if you love it so much - it would be too hard to knock it down

Dec

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heyy my mum @Owlunar

you know the song about " the crooked old man "

well mum is singing " there was a crooked old lady who lives in a crooked old house "

the house is soo crooked, has been through lots of cyclones

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