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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51

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awww thank you @outlander

hello and hugs @eth , @Former-Member , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Former-Member , @Owlunar

had a busy day today

and my mum gave me my christmas present today as she could not wait anymore

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That is an early Christmas present @Shaz51 with her short term memory loss, Mum might forget she has already given you a gift and you might score another one on the day 😀.

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i am totally sure i will score another present on the day @Former-Member

and she has already sent away for mr shaz`s Present too

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Silver linings @Shaz51 😀.

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ah ha yes @Former-Member

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Pretty sad tho ... what dementia does to people.

@Shaz51

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yes i agree @Appleblossom , mum is telling me she is getting worse , my poor darling xxx

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I can tell its heart breaking. She has gone from being the great source of life and love to being childish in her eagerness to give you gifts.

@Shaz51

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Hey @Shaz51

Your dear old mother - into giving gifts at this stage of her life - that is a kind of blessing showing that side of her nature - yes - you might get a lot of gifts now because she forgets she has given them - maybe worried herself that she might forget - it's sad but cute at the same time

Sending hugs - life's not easy Shaz - the dear old soul - I really care about her and admire her strength -

Hugs for both of you from your second Mum

Dec

Don't forget me Rudolph

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