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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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StuFSenior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 8:32 pm AEDT

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And a melanoma @Shaz51 ?!

Hoping it has been caught early...

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Shaz51Senior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 8:48 pm AEDT

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Had the sunspot shaved off and set Away for testing but needs to be cut out more @StuF , @Dimity , @Jacques

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StuFSenior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 8:50 pm AEDT

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As long as they can get it all @Shaz51 🤞

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JynxModerator09 Jan 2024, 8:51 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51 Sending hugs for you and Mr Shaz! I hope it's nothing too serious, and I hope you get the chance to take some time to nourish yourself!

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Shaz51Senior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 8:59 pm AEDT

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Find out more with all our upcoming appointments, scans and tests @Jynx , @StuF

So trying to be a stable keel for Mr shaz

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StuFSenior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 9:02 pm AEDT

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You are the rock for so many people @Shaz51

I don't pray, but I certainly wish you the strength to overcome these trials

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Shaz51Senior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 9:08 pm AEDT

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Thank you @StuF , that means soo much to me my friend

How are you today

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StuFSenior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 9:16 pm AEDT

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I'm ok thanks @Shaz51

But I'm afraid I'm gonna go to bed on ya. Back to work tomorrow for the first time this year!

I hope you can get some rest and sleep

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Shaz51Senior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 9:17 pm AEDT

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Goodnight @StuF

Hope tomorrow will go OK for you 🙂

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HealandloveSenior Contributor09 Jan 2024, 11:06 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51 , I am so sorry you and Mr Shaz are going through this. I need to catch up with the thread to understand the whole of it but just in this last post it is certainly so much you are dealing with. Sending you all my supportive thoughts to you and Mr Shaz for healing and resolution of all things pending at the moment so you can both be at ease. You will be in my prayers, please take care. Thank you for all you give to this community ❤️

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