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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hugs @Shaz51

Mr shaz might be processing a lot now his hand is healing - mh, retirement. Might be time to explore what's out there for seniors in your town - services, activities, you name it, and maybe think about if/how you can spin off your photography and other interests. It's a journey I'm on too.

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thanking of you @Shaz51 i hope mr shazs hand is healing okay

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Hello @outlander , @Dimity , @Owlunar2 , @Emelia8 , @Jacques , @Appleblossom , @Zoe7 , @Faith-and-Hope , @Healandlove , @Mother1 , @tyme , @Blackbird11 , @hanami , @Jynx , @StuF , @Krishna

Sorry , Have not been around lately this week but wow , got blood tests, scans , specialist appointments, Mr shaz visiting the ER last night

Phone calls about mum

Catching up with doctors, nurses

Doctor appointments next week

Centrelink

Mental health team--- no help at all

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So Much to navigate @Shaz51 !!!

I hope you manage a way through it. Is Mr shaz ok? (Sorry to pick one thing out of all that, but the ER caught my attention)

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Yes thinking it might be kidney stones again @StuF , @Dimity

But will know more tomorrow after scan

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Gentle hugs @Shaz51 I hope Mr shaz is OK, please make sure you make some time to just chill and relax, I know stress can play havoc with diabetes and blood pressure.

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It sounds pretty full on @Shaz51 - I take it Mr shaz wasn't admitted - hope you're both safe and OK - not easy

Glad you're getting the tests and scans you need, but it sounds exhausting

Hope your mum hasn't had another setback

Dealing with Centrelink is soooo slow and tedious sometimes and you have to keep trying

Biiiggg hugs, sending lots of love

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Thank you @Dimity , @Jacques , @StuF

Mr shaz's sunspot has come back a melanoma so have to see a specialist next week

Yes I think my blood tests will be high tomorrow

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Well fingers crossed he can be sorted @Shaz51

And obviously all the best with the rest! You surely deserve a break and/or a medal!!!

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Ohhh @Shaz51 kidney stones - fingers crossed they find what's wrong and treat it

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