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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Thank you @Healandlove

How are you going this week

Sometimes I just feel a bit overwhelmed at times , so I need to take a step back , write a list and go one day at a time ❤️

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Sounds hectic @Shaz51 💖

Sorry to hear of Mr Shaz melanoma diagnosis. As you may recall, my husband also had melanoma. Caught too late. I really hope they have caught Mr Shaz's early, before it spreads.

For you, hmmm maybe kidney stones? Hopefully nothing more serious than that. Get better soon.

You have way too much on your plate. 😔🌺🐝

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Morning @Emelia8 ❤️

Hope you are going OK

Having my blood tests this morning so I am just drinking water before it

Then a scan for Mr shaz this afternoon

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Will be thinking of you @Shaz51 💖. Good luck to both you and Mr Shaz. 🍀

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🙏🙏🙏❤️ @Shaz51 …. I had a melanoma, caught early. I hope it all works out okay. Take courage, take care. Make sure you take some gentle time out - a walk, cup of tea with a friend, music that soothes you …. big hugs ❣️

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Hey @Shaz51

I hope your day goes ok and results are in your favour

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Get all the results next week @StuF 🙂

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🤞 @Shaz51

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@Shaz51tthinking of you and Mr Shaz and hoping all the results are workable. I know stress can cause kidney stones as well. I had them and they are awful. Hope that by next week everything is clearer and with good news and strategies to move forward.

I'm doing OK. 🙏🏻 started reading more fiction so that has been relaxing.

Sending you both hugs 🫂 ❤️

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@Jynx , @RiverSeal , @Former-Member

Husband is upset and angry about the video session with the psychologist

Which we had on Friday

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