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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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SnowieSenior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 6:46 pm AEST

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Hi @Shaz51

You are not alone on here hon.

Here for you

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JacquesSenior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 6:53 pm AEST

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hi @Shaz51 sorry to hear mr shaz is not doing to well, and sorry you are having trouble with family. i hope you can find a way to relax tonight. it is really hot here 35 today, im watering my lawn at the moment because everything is drying out so much.

i had an appointment with a psychiatrist today, she asked me a lot of questions and was visibly shocked with some of my answers. she is refering me to a councilling service and thinks i may be on the autistic spectrum. it would explain a lot as to why im not normal.

hugs my friend.

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greenspaceSenior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:00 pm AEST

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a hug for you @Shaz51 if you'd like one 🤗

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DimitySenior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:01 pm AEST

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Hi @Shaz51 hope Mr shaz gets some good quality sleep tonight, you probably need it too. Any news on D1 and your grandson? I hope they're OK.

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fluffylightSenior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:07 pm AEST

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Hi @Shaz51
Holding lots of space for you 💛

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:09 pm AEST

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Thank you @Dimity , @greenspace , @Jacques , @Snowie , @StuF

Ohh hugs and sitting with you @Jacques

I love hugs @greenspace , sending some to you too

Grandson is beautiful @Dimity , growing fast and he is going to be very active like his dad xx

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:12 pm AEST

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Thank you 😊 @fluffylight 🥰

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fluffylightSenior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:15 pm AEST

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How are you spending tonight? @Shaz51

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DimitySenior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:17 pm AEST

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I have a new great-nephew @Shaz51 but haven't met him yet. The photos are lovely.

Hello @Jacques nice to see you

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Shaz51Senior Contributor18 Sept 2023, 7:42 pm AEST

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Awww lovely @Dimity xx

@fluffylight , I have had leftovers for dinner and a shower

Now just playing on my phone before bed

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