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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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My sister inlaw is brining over a car for us to borrow

Trying to take my mind off things @hanami

It is a bit cool out here but I don't want to go inside yet , I will wait for the car to arrive first

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With the new medications are making him hungry all the time and some medications are for bipolar

Needs something to help him sleep @Jynx , @hanami

He has an appointment with mental health tomorrow but unsure he wants to go at the moment

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Hope Mr shaz sister does not want to see him @Jynx , @hanami , @Dimity

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Very tough times for both of you @Shaz51 !!!

I imagine meds will take some time to work fully (well, they will, as you know) but hopefully will gain at least Some benefit quickly. Sleep can be tricky, and so important

I hope he goes to the appointment- every bit can help. Would you go with him?

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Play it by ear @Shaz51 ... hope it works out.

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Maybe remind mr Shaz to take things slow if he can? Could communicate to sister he may just need some time at home to recuperate @Shaz51

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Thanks @StuF , @Dimity , @Jynx

Yes I will go with him tomorrow to the appointment

And fingers crossed 🤞

Mr shaz has 3 sisters @Jynx and the one that came is very controlling

Yes he does need more time to recuperate, I agree 👍

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My other sister inlaw rang me tonight @Jynx , @Dimity , @StuF , @hanami , @greenspace , @Jacques , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar , @outlander , @Snowie

Feeling a bit alone now 😕

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I take it it wasn't a great call @Shaz51 ?

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Sorry @Shaz51 - gotta go for dinner

Will check back in later

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