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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Trying too @Jacques , @StuF , @Dimity , @Snowie , @hanami

Going to make a coffee now

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Hi darling @Shaz51 Im sorry I’ve been absent from the forum so unable to support you in your time of need but happy to see the amount of love flowing to you from the forum family.,I hope all is more settled now and that you have been kind to yourself and let those tears flow. Thank you for all that you do 🙏❤️🌹

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Hello @greenspace 👋🙂

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hello @Shaz51 How's your weekend going?


I just read your post from a few days ago, and the responses -- isn't this forum wonderful? so many empathetic, understanding, supportive people 💕

feeling rejected is just so hard to deal with. I'm glad you had support from the forum family.

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We are here for you too my @greenspace 🥰

Feeling soo tired

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sorry you're so tired @Shaz51 I hope you have a good night's sleep tonight, and a restful day tomorrow.

I've actually been feeling pretty good in recent weeks -- daily moments of anxiety, overwhelm, etc, but more moments of feeling okay or even good! Don't know how long this will last, but I'm appreciating it while it's happening.

and hopefully I'll remember to come to the forums when I'm feeling overwhelmed, ask for some support

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Ohhh enjoy the moment My awesome @greenspace 🥰

I will tag you sometimes from time to time xxx

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@hanami , @tyme , @Jynx , @greenspace , @Krishna , @StuF , @Jacques , @Dimity

Things are getting as the afternoon goes on

He want me to cancel things tomorrow, does not want any dinner

Back into bed

I am sitting on my patio to try and relax 😌

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Aw, that's tough @Shaz51 . Makes it hard for you.

I hope it's relaxing out there. x

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@Shaz51 Hope you can take some nice deep breaths hun - always good to be able to spend a few moments to ourselves ay. I knowmy appetite is always a bit random with my ADHD - some days I will forget to eat, or not want to eat at all, other days I'm like a bear with a honey pot; just fistfulls of every food I can get my hands on 😅

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