Not sure what to do !!!

Do the secrets change anything for you?, no @Former-Member , I kinda knew , it just made it a sure thing for me

Loud music ... Yikes @Shaz51 --- OHHHHH YESSSSS

Ear muffs for you @Shaz51

ha ha YEA @Former-Member

I kinda knew , it just made it a sure thing for me @Former-Member , had a few knowing tears this afternoon and then my cousin rang me back to see if I was ok xx

You OK now @Shaz51 ?

yest thank you @Former-Member

my cousin said my mum was sooo upset about my uncle passing and she told the nurses and my cousin not to ring me up

Oooohh @Shaz51 perhaps Mum does not want to burden you with her grief or she may feel she needs to be strong for you.

Do you feel it would be helpful to you to share some tears with Mum?

it would of been good that day @Former-Member xxx

Perhaps letting her know it is ok for her to cry or express her grief, that you both miss the love and support that your uncle gave @Shaz51, whilst one opportunity may have been missed, others may present and

very true my friend @Former-Member xxxx

Dear @Former-Member & @Shaz51

@Owlunar @Determined @Jacques

I do like @Former-Member 's suggestion. I went to a funeral of one of my elderly people ( I'm an aged carer at the present moment......) and another son and daughter from someone else I see were asking me some ideas of their Mum.

Why don't you trust your own intuition @Shaz51 ?? A visit to her Doctor with your Mum or without will not go astray........thinkig about the people being all anxious about their Mother did not look comfortable x