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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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hello my wonderful friends @Former-Member , @Jacques

and my second mum @Owlunar

we have a big meeting in the morning , fingers crossed and hoping everything will work out for thr best

asked my aunty ( mum`s sister ) to be there with us

Mum was good today , tomorrow is another day xx

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Will be thinking of you @Shaz51

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 with all you have going on.

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thank you @Determined , @Former-Member

sending you hugs and hope you are ok and stay strong xoxo

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I wish your family the best @Shaz51 - this is not an easy time for a family

I know you will all have your mother's best interests at heart - she has been battling for a long time and now perhaps really does need more help that you can give her - but still somehow inside herself doesn't want to admit it

And you must consider your health as well - and Mr Shaz needs you at the best you can be - we all do

Sending my best thoughts

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@Shaz51

Been thinking of you today.

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And you must consider your health as well - and Mr Shaz needs you at the best you can be - we all do --- very true my amazing second mum @Owlunar

this afternoon was to reasurring my darling Mr shaz -- my poor darling , soo much going on and to tell him that everything is ok is hard

but with my love , mr shaz is right again now xoxo

we are looking forward to a week holiday in May which will be what we need xxx

meeting went well this morning @Former-Member , things are under way for mum to go home with help including me and my aunty xxx

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@Shaz51

Please don't ever underestimate what a beautiful person you are.

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mr shaz has the music up very loud tonight @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Determined , @Jacques , @Sophie1

having leftover pizza for dinner

found out some secrets from my cousin today about my mum , which I kinda knew but now i know

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Loud music ... Yikes @Shaz51

Do the secrets change anything for you?

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