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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Yumi brand Thai fritters from the supermarket @Shaz51 - mixed veg with lemongrass and coriander. Quite nice.

It's been a while since I've done a tuna bake, you've given me an idea for later this week.

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Yumm @Dimity , sounds great

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The next step is a Disability Medical Assessment with a Government-contracted Doctor. These Assessments are conducted by Sonic HealthPlus on behalf of Services Australia.

Ohhhhh what to expect when they ring me 🤔

@outlander , @Zoe7 , @BlueBay , @StuF , @Dimity , @amber22 , @Owlunar , @tyme , @FloatingFeather

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I see the 'fun' continues for you @Shaz51 !

Surely, surely they could cut the bs and just approve you

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Ooh @Shaz51

I have had these interviews - they ask questions - lots of questions - to find out the level of care you need - I am truly amazed all of this is taking years to eventuate. Honestly - in my opinion - it's all a bit much,

About the questions - you need to let them know the truth - that your health is really at risk - you have chronic pain because of your reduced kidney function. You also need to let them know how Mr Shaz's up-and-downs-and-ups-and-downs - and his anxiety - which is natural for him I understand - makes it harder for you - and it's important that they are aware of your circumstances - all of your battles.

I have the feeling you do your best to make the best of things - as do I - we need to be honest about our health issues in such interviews. There is no need to worry though - these people are there to help and you do need medical and financial support.

I know you are working when it would be better if you did not. I know you are doing less - and this can be a tricky thing - sort of - if you can work then you don't need as much help. The truth is you need their help because you have to work to pay your way.

It's good this assessment is coming up - I wish you the best - I also wish I could be there with you.

I'm sending you my love

Your Forum Mum

Owlunar

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Aww @Shaz51 Sending you lots of hugs and hoping that you're okay today ❤️

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Hello @amber22 wondering if you are still around today xxx

thank you

my doctor and specialist said to try for the DSP , it has been a long road to get to the final sonic call before pension and I am feeling a bit worried now

@Owlunar , my wonderful forum mum , thank you for your support , they dont mind we are self employed but see what is involved

@StuF , @Dimity , @BlueBay , @FloatingFeather

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Hi @Shaz51

Sorry to hear of your struggles with this. Sending hugs

Hanami

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Everything crossed for you @Shaz51

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I hope you can get this support that you really need @Shaz51 . This week I've been trying to find out about support services for someone with physical and MH needs and it's been very difficult.

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