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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hello @Owlunar , @amber22 , @hanami , @StuF < @Dimity , @Paperdaisy , @Appleblossom , @Zoe7 , @Faith-and-Hope , @Emelia8 , @FloatingFeather , @Jacques , @Bunniekins , @Determined , @Krishna , @Smc

feeling very lonely at the moment

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Oh @Shaz51 happy to sit with you my friend. What's happening today?

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Hey @Shaz51 How are things? 🤗

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i my beautiful friend @Shaz51 sitting with you, here if you want to chat. hugs

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thank you my @Dimity @Paperdaisy , @Jacques

we worked this morning and did a few things for others but this afternoon it is sooo hot and we had showers inbetween what mr shaz wanted to do

he hates beeing hot and sweaty , he has had 2 baths this afternoon , he is being cranky and not having tv on , he decided to have his leftover dinner cold instead of warming it up

he wanted to have a BBQ on the patio but it is too hot and smells like cat next door has been there

ohhh I just feel like going away it is sooo quite

sorry everyone just one of those days xxxx

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Sorry to hear it's been a hard day @Shaz51 Can you make yourself and iced tea and enjoy the peace and quiet? Hugs 💝

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going to try @Paperdaisy a shower to might help also

but my mind at the moment has gone into overdrive and is coming up with all these crazy things --- trying to tell myself it is just one of those days , it will be ok tomorrow

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Oh @Shaz51

Wish I could offer more support than through a screen x

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it is really hot here too @Shaz51 it is 40, i know how you feel, the unbearable heat makes me cranky and lethargic. gentle hugs Shaz

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Gosh @Shaz51 consider yourself heard. Can you go out in the garden jump and down and yell? Might make you feel better.

You're a saint with Mr shaz.

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