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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Hope you have a lovely day tomorrow @Shaz51 . Don't worry about meeting other people's expectations, you can't please them all.

Enjoy the times with Mr shaz, your mum and your extended family. It sounds like a busy day.

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Morning @Dimity

It is 2am here and wide awake

Doing some supporting my husband after last night dinner, he can't sleep and his mind has been going a 100 miles a hour xxx

Hope you have a OK day too

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Thanks @Shaz51 . Hope you both got some sleep and mr shaz is more settled today. Some deep breathing and a cup of tea? It will be over soon.

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Hello @Shaz51 hoping you and mr shaz are OK if returning to work this week

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Hello and hugs @Dimity

How are you xx

Yes being on holidays had made us a bit slack but it was great for my physical problems

Worked for 5. Hours today , came home feeling very tired

Could not visit mum today as she is still not feeling well

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That's a pretty solid first day back @Shaz51 ! Well done 🙂

Bummer about your mum and not being able to visit...is she improving at least?

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Feeling very tired and aching now

Mr shaz is making me a coffee ☕

@StuF , @Dimity

Mum has been sleeping all day today and the nurse said she is a lot better today

Don't know the blood test results yet

How are you @StuF

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Maybe an Irish coffee @Shaz51 ? lol

(I hope that's not too inappropriate a joke)

Sounds positive about your mum. Hopefully any results come back good.

I'm alright thanks @Shaz51 . Nothing too exciting to report. I'm back at work this Friday. Almost looking forward to it for the structure!

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Glad Mr shaz is looking after you @Shaz51 - it's your turn for TLC. And it's good your mum is a bit better. You probably had enough on your plate without visiting as well. Hope it's something easy for dinner - I did veggie fritters and salad.

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Yumm @StuF , we had 2 beers this afternoon so coffee ☕ time now xx

Leftovers Tuna bake heated up for dinner tonight @Dimity

Veggie fritters sounds great -- what is in them ?

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