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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51 💚💚💚

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@Shaz51

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Only problem this morning @outlander , @Zoe7. @Jacques. @StuF , @tyme , @Dimity

Is being consistently ask if I am taking mum home for Christmas lunch or having Christmas lunch with her at the aged care home

Arrgggggggg

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Are you able to have Mum home for Christmas @Shaz51 ?

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No , because of the steps @Zoe7

And my cousin is having Christmas lunch this year with her aircon on and she has lots of steps

I have told the nurses I will come and visit on the day , and there can only be one visitor at a time

Also I think it will be too upsetting for mum to visit home and go back @tyme

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Oh @Shaz51 💚 I am sure your Mum will love the visit - so hard for you all though my sister 😥

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@Shaz51 my friend i am thinking of you. Christmas day is a difficult day especially when our loved ones are in aged care.

sending loving hugs and care to you xxxxoooo

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So much undeserved (and probably unintended) pressure for you @Shaz51

But you have a plan...I think a good plan. You can't be everything to everyone all the time

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Thank you my sisters @BlueBay , @Zoe7

Yes am feeling very torn

But going to stick to my plan

It is just people that does not make it easy xxx

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Hugs @Shaz51

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