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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Very true @StuF xxx

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StuFSenior Contributor

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Only 12 hours @Shaz51 ???

Where's your commitment? lol

(jokes)

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Ha ha @StuF

Yep a few years ago we did it , Mr shaz drives all the way , made it for BIL birthday 🎂 party that night 😆

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JacquesSenior Contributor

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hugs @Shaz51 it is really tough, i hope your family member is understanding. their will be plenty of time to catch up over christmas and new year.

i will be spending christmas alone, just a BBQ and a sleep for me.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Hugs my brother @Jacques

We are having Christmas/New Year celebrations here

And Mr shaz does not want to go anywhere on Christmas day xxxx

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StuFSenior Contributor

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I guess it's one of the joys of living in a Big state in a Big country @Shaz51 !

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JacquesSenior Contributor

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hugs too @Shaz51 you and mr shaz have had a really busy and emotionally, physically challenging year, i hope you both get some time to whind down and have a rest.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Will try my @Jacques

How is your mum , aunty ,xx

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JacquesSenior Contributor

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oh mum is going ok @Shaz51 her kidney function is down again to 38% so she has to monitor it closely. my aunt is ok, still really unwell with schizophrenia but we are able to cope with her little quirks. partner is having a bit of a hard time with one of her girls. so im trying to support her as best i can.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Hugs @Jacques xx

You are awesome my friend, please remember you too xx

My kidney function is down to 19% now

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