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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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I hear you @Shaz51 ,

Hopefully you'll be able to work together and come up with something that works for everyone.

Hugs, tyme

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@Shaz51 🙏

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Thank you @tyme , @Determined 💖💖

I have sent a update to all of the close family members

Getting lots of messages back xx

There is one cousin who is a bit overbearing

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Hello shaz @Shaz51 sitting with you as you sit with your mum. Love and strength...

Dimity

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@Shaz51 Awwwww Shaz. I'm so sorry to hear the latest news on your dear mum. I can totally understand your feeling of 'what next'? Gee I so wish she could soon be transferred back to your local hospital. But I guess that will be delayed now, due to the latest news.

Hugs Shaz 💞

I have applied for 3 rental accommodation options today. Such a daunting task.

Emelia

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Thinking of you my sis @Shaz51

Such a stressful time for you xxxooo

hugs

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I'm here @Shaz51 if you want a chat.

@Emelia8 , fingers crossed with your applications!

tyme

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Fingers crossed for you @Emelia8 xx

Thanks @Determined , @Dimity , @Emelia8 , @BlueBay @tyme

Just been on the peer chat tonight

I amm just ohhh aww at the moment, will be OK, find out more tomorrow

Just got a very annoying cousin texting me all night , arrgg

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I'm glad you could join the peer group chat @Shaz51 .

Hope you found it beneficial.

As for you cousin, I wish you all the patience at this time.

tyme

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I wasn't going to but glad I did @tyme

I know my cousin means well but there is nothing I can do today or tomorrow but just wait for the doctor to ring me

She has her mum ( my mum's sister) in a mess tonight which is understandable but she is not helping

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