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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Thank you @Determined , @BlueBay , @Emelia8 , @tyme , @Dimity xx

Yes Mr shaz brain spasms has stopped but he is feeling a bit low and feeling tired all the time

Could be a number of things which may be causing this

Trying to keep going on the reduced amount of his medication

Could be me being worried about my mum or we have lost a few permanent jobs this year

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Oh noo @tyme , @Dimity , @Emelia8 , @Emelia8 , @BlueBay , @Determined , @Paperdaisy

Mum latest update this afternoon by the doctor
Mum has been saying her stomach hurts so they did a scan and it looks like she has a bile duct blockage which she will see a specialist tomorrow to unblock the blockage

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oh no @Shaz51!! How are you feeling about that? What's next?

I'm so sorry about the news ❤️

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Thank you @Former-Member

Mum has been in hospital since the 11th June with one thing happening after another thing

Yes I have said that " what's next "!!! As I am letting her sisters and sister's inlaws and family members know the latest update

Me I feel awwww for my 91 year old mum

And I know she is in the best place to get care but it is sooo far away and she comes out of isolation tomorrow from being positive to covid19

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

oh wow, @Shaz51 you are carrying so much ❤️ I feel "awwwww" for your mum too, I know lots of us do.

I'm so glad she's got such great care, but it must be so tiring be so far away.

Sending lots and lots of virtual hugs ❤️

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Thank you for the virtual hugs my @Former-Member

Going to have a big cappuccino

Soo hoping she could be transferred to a closer hospital 30kms or even better our local hospital xxx

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Enjoy the a big cappuccino ❤️ I'll have one in your name tomorrow morning @Shaz51

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Sorry to hear @Shaz51 sending you support and hugs. I hope you are OK 💝

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Awwww OK @Former-Member 😀👍

Doctor is going to ring me again tomorrow for update and what to do next xx

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Thank you @Paperdaisy xx

I amm just feeling sooo far away and feeling awwwwwwww what is going to happen next 😓

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