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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Look after yourself @Shaz51 .

Take care.

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Oh @Shaz51 doesn’t sound good at all. How are you feeling this morning?

hugs

Hanami ♥️

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Waiting is sooo hard @hanami

Waiting for a call from her specialist and doctor to see what happens next

Been teary a few times today and then calls from the family wanting to know more

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Update for mum
She has cancelled procedures to find out anymore of her bile duct blockage
So they will be transferring her to the hospital 30kms away tomorrow

@Dimity , @Emelia8 @BlueBay , @tyme @hanami

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Fingers crossed @Shaz51 . Thinking of you and your family.

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Oh my dear @Shaz51 I'm very sorry to hear your mum is refusing investigation and treatment for her bile duct blockage although it must be painful for her. Pain management and support is so important now as always but you and your family need support at this time too. It's so hard to watch the decline of a loved one. You're very much in my thoughts.

Bringing her closer to home is a good move, it would be even better if they can manage to find a bed for her at the local hospital but maybe the other hospital is better resourced.

Biiiggg hugs @Shaz51. Take care.

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Thankyou @tyme , @Dimity xx

Your message is so true my @Dimity

And being mum's POA is not making it easier

Fingers crossed here and love the hugs ❤❤

Sending you lots of hugs too

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 ♥️ xxoo

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Oh @Shaz51

I'm sorry to hear things are just not going smoothly for you! Sending my biggest virtual hugs and care to you and your family

Hanami ❤️

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Thank you @hanami , @BlueBay , @Dimity , @tyme , @Emelia8

Still in big hospital

No beds available now at any closer hospital

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