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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Thanks @tyme , @Emelia8

The doctor wanted her to go back to hospital today but my very strong , independent mum said no

And we have the next 2 days busy with work

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@Shaz51 ,

She may say no, but ultimately, it’s doing what’s best for her and you.

All the best,

tyme

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Very true @tyme

And it is getting harder

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Catching up here @Shaz51 with everything you have been dealing with. I can only imagine how hard it is for you my sister but your Mum is so lucky to have you. Please look after yourself too - you mean a great deal to so many of us here 💚💚💚💚💚💚

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Hugs my sister @Zoe7 ❤❤❤

Hi latest update about mum
We saw the doctor again today as mum is still in lots of pains, lack of balance and harder to get around and the doctor is trying some pain patches this week and mum could be back in hospital very soon

Yes it is all catching up for me xx

And I can see it is affecting my Mr shaz

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@Shaz51 💚

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Mum is back in hospital last night

She is having a MRI this week and pain treatment to help her with the pain , looks like she may have a damaged nerve or a hairline fracture

And Mr shaz has been sleeping all day after we both woke up with bad sinus headaches this morning

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@Shaz51 Oh dear, I am really sorry to hear that. Hopefully they can quickly sort out the issue and provide some relief. Sounds like she is where she needs to be. 😔🌷🌻♥

Might I suggest you take the opportunity to spend some time on yourself and Mr Shaz.💞

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@Shaz51

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Thankyou my @Emelia8 , @Appleblossom ❤❤❤

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