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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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OaktreeSenior Contributor

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@Shaz51

So sorry to hear that your Mum is back in hospital. I hope that it will all be resolved quickly. Please make sure that you look after yourself as well as everyone else. You need to fill your own bucket too.

lots of love,

Meggle

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Shaz51Senior Contributor

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Thank you @Oaktree

Sending you lots of hugs too my friend xoxo

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OaktreeSenior Contributor

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Thankyou @Shaz51

I love hugs 💜😁😘

Meggle

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BlueBaySenior Contributor

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I’m sorry to read your mum is back in hospital with pain.
but she is where she needs to be snd will be well looked after.
you and mr Shaz need to look after both of you.
Thinking of you lovely

take care xxxxooo

@Shaz51

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JacquesSenior Contributor

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Hugs my friend @Shaz51 I hope your mum will be OK. Glad you are both catching up on some rest. Hope you both feel better soon

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tymeModerator

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Hugs @Shaz51 ,

As hard as it is for your mum, at this time, at least you know she will be looked after when in hospital.

I hope you will be able to have some time for yourself and also so you and Mr Shaz keep well.

Kindest,

tyme

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StuFSenior Contributor

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As others have said: your mum is in the right place, for now, and hopefully you and Mr will have some @Shaz51 time

Hugs

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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor

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❤️ @Shaz51

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Zoe7Senior Contributor

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I hope that they find the issue for your Mum and help her feel more comfortable @Shaz51 By now I also hope you are asleep and that sinus headache has gone. Hugs and hugs my sister 💕

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BlueBaySenior Contributor

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Thinking of you my sis @Shaz51

how is your mum?

xxxxoooo

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