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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@BlueBay aww nice to see you too - I've been away for a bit, needed a break. But am very glad to be back 😊

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Hugs my sister xoxo @BlueBay sitting together xx

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Glad you’re back @Jynx

Xxx

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Aww @Shaz51 that is so not the case! No one is ever 100% responsible for things, because no one exists in a vacuum. We're all doing the best we can with what we have in our particular environments.

I do know how hard it is to shake the guilts when you got em though. I hope you can find ways to remind yourself that you are not to blame. 💜

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Sorry to hear things are rough for you at home @Shaz51

You are going through so much and trying to deal with it all.

Lots and lots of love and hugs 💜💜

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Lost my aunty last week

Lost my uncle this morning

Soo sad

@Emelia8 , @Snowie , @Jynx , @BlueBay , @Jacques , @Faith-and-Hope , @Zoe7 , @Dimity , @Adge , @Daisydreamer @Former-Member , @Determined , @Appleblossom , @Smc

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@Shaz51 😢

So sad for you.

Trust you can take some time out for you to grieve. Something that is so hard to do when so many are relying on you.

But also important

🙏

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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss @Shaz51

It is hard enough losing one person let alone two.

Please know that we are here for you and to support you.

Sending lots of love to you all 💗💗

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Ohhhh hugs dear @Shaz51 I am sooo sorry to hear of your dual losses. 💔

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Love and hugs @Shaz51 - such huge losses for you, and for your mum too. Hoping you are getting the support you need. Sitting with you in your troubles... here for you.

If you're into aromatherapy Lavender oil can be soothing... wishing you kindness and comfort from wider family and your forum friends...

Dimity

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