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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Thank you @Faith-and-Hope , @Emelia8 , @Jynx

I am totally Sure it is a stress aches in my face

And because we are living at mum's and caring for her that does not help Mr shaz

Sooo different to having a place of your own , feels like we are at a standstill , camping according to Mr shaz

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Re: Not sure what to do !!!

Mmm sounds really unfair on you @Shaz51 . I agree with what @Faith-and-Hope is saying about trying to find some work arounds. I imagine the indecisiveness is a reflection of some un-acknowledged anxiety or something, maybe he needs some reassurance?

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@Jynx

He likes to get things done now instead of waiting until mum goes

For me , I am kinda anxious in doing things in the yard and house while she is here as mum would be angry with me

Hope that makes sense @Faith-and-Hope , @Emelia8

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Also thinking Mr shaz needs a checkup as he is soo tired everyday and sweating lots @Jynx , @Emelia8 , @Faith-and-Hope

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hi @Shaz51 gentle hugs my friend.

you really need to get Mr Shaz to seek some professional help, sounds like his meds are not working, maybe he can jump onto sane to try to get some outside perspective.

i hope you both can have a quiet weekend and rest

hugs my friend

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Thanks my brother @Jacques ❤❤

Going to the movies tonight

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@Shaz51 maybe a check up is a good idea! Sometimes when something is wrong in our bodies we might get extra anxiety happening, so a check up might be good for both of you

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@Jynx sometimes I think it is all me , my fault

@Jacques , @Emelia8 , @Faith-and-Hope

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Oh my friend @Shaz51 you have so much on your plate. So much thinking, worrying and working out. No wonder you have a headache!!!
stress plays a big part of physical pain.
I’m sitting with you and I understand how hard it is

pls take care xxxooo

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Hi @Jynx 👋

hope you’re well. Haven’t spoken to you for a while xx

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