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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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No @Former-Member , @Paperdaisy he has cancelled all help ages ago

See the doctor for his scripts, and she has organised someone for him to see but he won't

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That sounds like it might be hard @Shaz51. When I faced a similar situation with a loved one I found it to be frustrating at times, you really need a fair bit of patience and the ability to look after yourself – if one crew mate goes down, the whole ship needs to make sure it can still stay afloat, if that makes sense?

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Sure does make sense @Former-Member

He goes and goes , he wanted to do a couple of jobs before lunch , already worked for 2 hours

Decided to wait now until after lunch and has fallen asleep 💤

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Hello @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @BlueBay , @Jynx , @Zoe7 , @Adge , @Sophia1 , @Anastasia , @Emelia8 , @Smc , @Determined

Well we have had 8 days off soo far @Scoo , @StuF , @Jacques

And we could not do want we wanted to do due to weather, close family members but we have had a rest times

Mr shaz is starting to get very anxious about going back to work next week , he is not looking forward to starting again in 4 days

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@Jynx , sometimes I love for Mr shaz not to work anymore xx

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@Shaz51 Aww I bet, I imagine it would save so much stress! It is a sorry state, the world we're in, where we constantly must put our mental wellbeing second to work.

Hugs xx

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Thanks @Jynx , bad day for my mum too

Shopping this morning which Mr shaz hates

Can not do anything right today xx

I brought a magazine, maybe try and relax and read

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@Shaz51

Great you got some rest but bugger about work!

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I find shopping so overwhelming @Shaz51, it's a sensory nightmare.

Don't always have to do things right. Heard a quote recently, thought it might be relevant to you:

"If you were always at your best, then it wouldn't be your best it would just be your average."

Magazine and some restful hours sounds just right

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Thank you @StuF

How are you going today

Yes I am thinking about doing online shopping and get it delivered instead of putting Mr shaz through going shopping

What made it worse today was seeing his ex mother in law doing her shopping @Jynx , @Former-Member , @Emelia8

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