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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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StuFSenior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 4:26 pm AEDT

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Online shopping could be the go @Shaz51

Especially if it removes the possibility of chance encounters with people you'd rather not meet!

Me all good thanks. Gotta get out of the house tho. Going a bit barmy lol

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JynxModerator30 Dec 2021, 4:30 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51 Online would be a safe bet - plus not so many impulse buys maybe? I know I end up buying too many snacks, especially if I shop while hungry. Sounds like a good option!

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BlueBaySenior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 4:42 pm AEDT

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sending you loving hugs and support my sis @Shaz51

you are going through so much atm

xxxxoooo

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Zoe7Senior Contributor30 Dec 2021, 8:16 pm AEDT

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Hopefully with the cutback in jobs Mr Shaz might cope okay @Shaz51 ...still - no doubt it is stressful for you seeing him anxious though ...hugs and hugs and hugs my sister

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Shaz51Senior Contributor03 Jan 2022, 6:57 pm AEDT

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AAARRRRRRRGGGGGGGG 😥😥

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Emelia8Senior Contributor03 Jan 2022, 7:02 pm AEDT

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Whats wrong my friend @Shaz51 ? 👂👀💓

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Shaz51Senior Contributor03 Jan 2022, 8:22 pm AEDT

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Hello @Emelia8 , @Former-Member ❤

We went to visit MIL and 7 of us ended there for lunch , we brought food for lunch

It was 36 degrees and MIL would not put the aircon on

Left feeling very Tired, hot and sweaty

Go home and my mum was cranky and could not find any reason to be grateful and happy

Watered the plants and a thunderstorm is rolling in , with lots of wind but no rain yet❤❤

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Unknown userMember03 Jan 2022, 9:29 pm AEDT

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Hey @Shaz51, oh no... I bet you were glad to be back home after that lunch. Being in a hot room with others makes me irritable. Do you get to put your feet up soon?

Always lovely to hear from you 🧡

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Shaz51Senior Contributor03 Jan 2022, 9:56 pm AEDT

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Yes @Former-Member it was great to get home 😃👍❤

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DeterminedSenior Contributor05 Jan 2022, 6:44 pm AEDT

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Thinking of you @Shaz51

Have been a bit slack over the last month or so keeping up but think of my forum friends often.

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