Not sure what to do !!!

@Shaz51 Yeah a super stressful time of year to be going through such big changes. I hope you can find a new balance and also maybe less time working means more time for yourself as well? Or is it too soon to be looking for silver linings?

Glad you are allowing yourself some time to process over a glass of wine but also recognising your limits! And I believe in you and your ability to make the most of a stressy-depressy situation

Awwww thank you my @Jynx , @Zoe7 ❤❤

Yes @Jynx for Mr shaz it is a opportunity to slow down a bit as he is looking towards retirement

Need to rethink about rebuilding, thinking it might be better not to

I'm sorry sis @Shaz51 it's tough especially just before Christmas

I do know how you feel

hugs xxxxxoooo

@Shaz51

Bread, eggs, wine, Carnation

❤❤❤ Love @Appleblossom

Thats is a lot with physical and financial issues increasing.

Life seems so much more of a struggle than it needs to be @Shaz51 Hard to keep optimistic. My best is realistic. Sometimes I just have to shrink my circle of concern.

We have all got so much going on.

Very true my @Appleblossom , too much is going on at the moment, will need to take a step back xx

I'm so sorry to hear this @Shaz51. It's not the news anyone likes to receive right before the holidays, but I know how hard the past year has been for you, so I can imagine it was a blow you did not need. I hope you and Mr Shaz are in a position to manage this news okay, and that you can take a little solace in knowing your own strength and resilience has been tested on many an occasion and you are still standing, albiet even when you feel that sense of fatigue as a result 💙

@Jynx , @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @BlueBay , @Zoe7 , @Sophia1 , @Smc , @Determined , @Adge , @Anastasia , @Owlunar , @Faith-and-Hope

@Former-Member , I think the biggest thing is that Mr shaz with his MI is tossed this way and that way , too many choices, too many changes happening

He says things and then change his mind

but I must say that if this had happened years early Mr shaz would be in hospital

I'm sorry to hear that @Shaz51

Poor MrShaz sounds like he might be in the emotional tumble drying machine atm. Does he have the professional supports he needs to get him through all the changes?