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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Determined , @BlueBay , @oceangirl , @eth , @Faith-and-Hope

Mum wants to move downstairs so she does not have to use the steps by with undiagnosed mid dementia my mum is m a king it seem bigger than it is xx

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You are one amazing soul @Shaz51 .

In the midst of everything, you can still stand strong and look to the needs of others. You are a real inspriation.

Hugs @Shaz51 . I'm here for you and with you 🙂

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Awwww thank you my @BPDSurvivor Xoxo

Glad you are with me my friend xxx

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You are so good at working through the issues @Shaz51 ..... take the time you need to work out what will be best for her, and take it in stages to make the changes, maybe ?

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Good advice @Faith-and-Hope 👍❤

One step at a time here xx

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You're amazing my sister @Shaz51

One step at a time.

Look after you too.

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@Shaz51 that would be extremely difficult, I'm sorry 😔💞

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Thinking of you @Shaz51

💜

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I’m so sorry you’re having a tough time @Shaz51

My mum lives with my sister and one of her complaints was about the 3 steps to the front verandah so Mum rarely goes out.

I hope you find a good solution by having your mum downstairs.

Please take care of you my precious Shaz.

💜🌸💜

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Thank you @Eve7 , @Sophia1 , @Anastasia , @oceangirl , @Faith-and-Hope

@Eve7 Yes my mum never goes anywhere now

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