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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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You can get a ramp with handrails to go over the steps @Shaz51 ..... look into all the support gear you can find, and ask about what community support you can access.

Hugs ❣️ Thinking of you ..... 💐💞

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@Shaz51

I am sorry you're going through this my sister. My dad has dementia too- so I can relate to how you feel. Remember to look after you too. You need support too and having people cushion you too. It's ok to ask for help and take time out for you. Thinking of you my sister.

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Thinking of you @Shaz51 and sending love xx

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ohhh hugs my sister @oceangirl with your dad xoxo

hello and hugs @eth , @Faith-and-Hope , @Former-Member , @outlander , @eth , @Owlunar , @Appleblossom , @Jacques , @Adge , @Anastasia , @Teej @Mazarita

finding it soo hard at the moment @Smc , @Determined , @BlueBay , @Scoo , @TAB , @Zoe7 , @Eve7 , @utopia

going to make a downstairs room for mu so she does not have to

use the steps at all but she is saying to everyone that she is going into exile

it is soooo hard @Former-Member , @Snowie , @wellwellwellnez , @BPDSurvivor , @NatureLover

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@Shaz51 Thank you 🙂 my beautiful sister

You need to look after yourself too

Just let that go over the top of your head, it may help you navigate through this

You're awesome. Sending you lots of hugs & love !!

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Just to let that go over the top of your head, it may help you navigate through this ----- ohhh thank you my wonderful sister @oceangirl

awwwww how are you my @oceangirl

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Your welcome my sister @Shaz51 How are you?

I'm good- just a bit tired. Just finished mowing the lawn. I am going to take a shower and freshen up. I will be here for a little bit longer.

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way to go my sister @oceangirl for mowing the lawn

our mower is in thr repair shop at the moment

suppose to have a family working bee on my Mother in laws house on saturday -- hope it does not rain xxx

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Thinking of you both @Shaz51 @oceangirl

♥️♥️

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Didn't your mum want to move downstairs @Shaz51 bit harsh if she makes it sound like that 🥺

Feeling your pain.

Have been having some wow discussions with my FIL recently. Not along those lines but statements and discussions that don't make much sense.

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