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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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today is the 14th october

and building a room downstairs which id 7 steps which she is finding so hard to go up and down now , brought her a microwave, fridge, jug and bookcase to place in her room

needs to be painted now and the aircon put in

feeling a bit concerned I am doing the right thing

@Faith-and-Hope, @oceangirl , @Anastasia , @Sophia1 , @Eve7 , @Zoe7 , @outlander , @Bunniekins , @Appleblossom , @Smc , @Determined , @Emelia8 , @Adge , @Owlunar , @BlueBay , @BPDSurvivor , @Jacques

It has been 11 months since our house fire , wow , @Former-Member , @TideisTurning , @cloudcore

and we are thinking of rebuiling -- crazy i know @Snowie , @Scoo

tonight i ammmm feeling soo tired about everything

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Im sure you are doing the right thing @Shaz51 . It sounds like you are getting your Mums new quarters set up beautifully. She will be able to manage much better once she is there. Elderly people do not take change well, so it will be hard for her to adjust. But with your love, gentle kindness and understanding ... she will manage.

Emelia 💕

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Oh my beautiful sis @Shaz51 you have so much on your plate. So much to do. No wonder you're exhausted. Pls take care.
11 months already. I hope things improve for you soon. I think you're doing the right thing having yiure mum downstairs.
we had my MIL upstairs as there was no other room for her downstairs. It was only about 7 or 8 stairs but still with her deteriorating eye sight we were always worried she would fall.
giving you big hugs xxxxoooo

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Ohh yes @BlueBay Soo worried mum will have a fall too

Thank you @BlueBay , @Emelia8

Hey @Jynx , I love you being around when I am a mess ❤❤❤

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♥️ @Shaz51

Hi @Emelia8 @Jynx 👋

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How are you my sisters @BlueBay , @Emelia8 @Smc xx

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Going to bed @Shaz51 ive still got a headache. It's been six days now. I'm so tired.
goodnight m my sis xxxx

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Having headaches are no good my sister xoxo @BlueBay

Sitting with you an hope you can sleep tonight

Thank you for sitting with me, I am feeling so awww

I have cut mum's toenails, put cream on her legs . Made her a cuppa going to bed very soon too ❤❤

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You're amazing mum @Shaz51 . As I always say, you are such an inspiration.

With so much on your plate, you still have room for everyone else.

Have a good rest tonight.

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Thank you my daughter @BPDSurvivor

Hope you sleep well tonight too 😀:ok_hand:🤞

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