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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Determined 😀👋 How are you tonight

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@Shaz51 sorry, I got sidetracked and didn't finish that thought.

Is that a reason for concern for you? Mr Shaz statement?

Things r looking up here, has been an emotional week.

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I did have tears come to my eyes @Determined , I came back to delete the message

He is happy with my reply which is good

Hope you have a easier weekend

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@Shaz51

It is hard when we all struggle with various health conditions.

Making plans and looking ahead can be good.

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Well I hope you have at least another 20 years together @Shaz51

I hope you're happy for those 20 or 30 years too - That's really important.

I hope that Mr Shaz's comment doesn't mean that he thinks he's going to go soon...

Adge

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Oh sis @Shaz51 ♥️♥️😘🙏💐

hugs lovely

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Hugs dear @Shaz51 💕

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hello @Shaz51

Perhaps Mr Shaz was also referring to the rebuilding of your home happening within that time...

Some of the things that my husband has come out with at times....I have baulked at....some I have responded to with a question...others let pass..

He always has the best intention though...He is not a deep thinker like me at all..

love Sophia 💛

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@Shaz51

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@outlander, @Sophia1 , @Anastasia , @BlueBay , @Adge , @Jacques , @Determined , @Smc , @Faith-and-Hope , @Appleblossom , @Emelia8 , @Elac , @eth , @Mazarita , @Krishna , hope you are going ok

, sending you lots of hugs

well i have had my second Jab

mum and mr shaz has their`s next week

mr shaz and i went away for 2 nights and my aunty and cousin did come to ring and check on my mum , funny at first they seemed they did not care xxxx

back home today and catching up on everything , feels like i did not have a break

ohh well , dont know what happened but mum wants me to make downstairs her bedroom soo she does not have to use the steps anymore xoxo

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