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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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@Shaz51 I can hear you're feeling lost and confused. Maybe it means you need to rest right now! Sometimes the next steps won't become clear until we have given ourselves time to stop, process, and refresh. All animals (including us!) need time to rest. I've found the ideas presented here to be incredibly helpful: The 7 types of rest every person needs

Here with you if you need to talk it out

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@Shaz51

I feel exactly this way!

I don't know what to do but I know that I am hurting!!!

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Thank you @Oaktree , @Jynx , @Snowie ❤❤❤

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my @Shaz51
I don't know what to say my friend but I am here to listen and support. That's what this community is about

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That's tough @Oaktree . Sending soothing thoughts your way

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hey @Shaz51 i have had both of mine with no issues, they tell you if somehting feels off just call 000 you will be fine my friend.

an old sayign i heard years ago rings in my head reading your post. it goes somehting like this:

Life is like sailing a boat, sometimes it is plain sailing, sometimes it is choppy waters, the whole aim is to not hit the rocks, just keep afloat and don't fight where life takes you, just go with the wind.

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Ohh hugs @Oaktree ❤❤❤

Thank you @Jacques , @MDT

@Jynx that is a very good resources ther my awesome friend ❤❤

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Happy to share, glad it helps! I think I need some emotional rest my own self! Take care @Shaz51

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Take care too my @Jynx ❤❤

Had my first covid19 jab today too soo see if I have any reactions

Might go to bed early but not quiet yet xxx

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((((( @Shaz51 ))))) hugzzNhugzz 💙

BeStrong💐

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