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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Lots of love @Shaz51, will be praying.

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@Shaz51 just found your post. Sorry your mum's this way. It's hard when they get words jumbled. Probably 'sundowners' Dads Gerantologist told me to make sure dad gets his 20min direct sunlight every day to help relieve this. But nursing dementia patients you sometimes have to anticipate their need because they jumble words. I hope she's not having a stroke? You know the signs don't you? Good idea not telling me Shaz, don't need 2 stressed out. Hope you get some sleep tonight 💙🌺💙🌺💙

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Thank you @BlueBay ,, @outlander , @utopia @@Sophia1 , @Zoe7 , @Smc , @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Anastasia ❤❤ I will have to talk to the doctor soon to help me I think

Yes , in the mornings mum seems ok, depends on How she slept and then what happens throughout the day xx

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❤️ @Shaz51 ....

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Lots of love @Shaz51 ❤️

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@Shaz51 ☕🌷💞

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Sounds like a wise decision talking to the doctor @Shaz51 Such a hard situation for you my sister - love and hugs to you

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@Zoe7 , @Anastasia , @BlueBay , @Faith-and-Hope , @Former-Member , @Determined , @Adge , @Owlunar , @Smc , @utopia , @Sophia1 , @Emelia8

Guess what

We have to go in lockdown from 4pm today , wow

No work for us for 3 days lockdown

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That'll dent the income. You'll be OK?

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Just have to be @Smc , yes will be ok xx

Hope you are ok xx

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