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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Love to have a cuppa with you @Anastasia ☕☕☕😀❤

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@Anastasia , @Former-Member , don't want to tell Mr shaz as s he will get anxious and dwell on

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oh dear @Shaz51 sorry to hear that. i know how you feel. its hard with dementia

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Hugs together @outlander ❤❤

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@Shaz51 🌷☕🍪

@outlander 🌷☕🍪

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Sending you a big comforting hug @Shaz51

❤💙💚💛💜

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Thank you @utopia , sending you hugs too ❤❤

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Oh sis @Shaz51 I really feel for you snd understand what you're going through. We struggled when my MIL had dementia. It was terrible. Hugs to you lovely. 😘♥️

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Hello @Shaz51

Found you somehow.

I think that you might have tagged me in one of your posts. I was going through all of the notifications and found your words.

I read that your mum has dementia and I think that you are her registered carer. I remember that you have been looking after her for some time now, dementia side might not have been diagnosed then. Or more than likely my fog brain forgot.

Hard work and your mum is still living at home on her own is she?

Some doctors have zero people skills. They wear blinkers and do not have an inkling of what it is like to be a carer.

I have a friend who has alzheimers part of the dementia family. I have taken her shopping, out for a meal, stood by whilst she has spent money for a family member, as I have no say.

I have found with her that she is so real and yes very honest but I like that. I love her as she is now and tell her so.

It is very hard for you Shaz, looking after your own needs, Mr Shaz who feeds off of your anxiety because you mean the world to him and he worries so about his mrs shaz.

Now your mum also.

Please make an appointment for a review.

thinking of you

Another talk with mum's doctor? Or is that all too hard?

The lovely mrs and mr shaz these forums would not be the same without you.

Step back when you need remember 💜💚❤

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@Shaz51 💖💖💖

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