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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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hugs my @Adge

yes i did not get married until i was 43 , so i was single for a long time before getting married

it sounds like you are supporting everyone else (around you) - yes maybe too much @Adge , @Former-Member but that is just me i suppose

yes and trying to be strong for my mr shaz is hard at times

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Oh flippen heck! @Shaz51 can you just shove them both into respite care and run away for a while!? lol You sound so exhausted. Please make time for you, a while day in bed now and then maybe. Feel for you 💙💙💙

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i feel like running away now my @Former-Member

@Adge, @Emelia8 , @Smc , @Anastasia , @Bunniekins , @Faith-and-Hope , @Smc , @Jacques , @Zoe7 , @eth

ohhh what a week

mum needed more scripts

tried to go up as mum`s carer and the doctor said no

so mum tried a phone appt to say i can pick up the scripts ----- the doctor said no

today we went up to the doctors , mum upset already ,mum is suppose to be on half a tablet a night

the doctor explained that the last script wa 25 days ago -- which means mum has been having a tablet each night , so he told her she looked terrible and i should put you in hospital

mum is back home and has to cut back on the meds which i have to control , her next script she can get will be in october the doctor said ----- arrrrrrrggggggg

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❤️ @Shaz51 .....

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it is not right @Faith-and-Hope

mum has half a tablet when she goes to bed and then a half a tablet at 2am to help her sleep

she has a good sleep , we have a sleep but not the doctor wants her to cut back

she is 90 and i think if she wants some to help her she should

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Agreed @Shaz51

Hugs and love. Still running here x

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Oh @Shaz51 ..... that sucks !

Hugs n hugs Hon 💜🌷💕

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Gentle hugs my @Shaz51, some days are so hard, gosh you have so much going on, meds can be such a nightmare especially when you are on a few.

I hope you can sort it out and get back on track

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hello @Jacques , @Faith-and-Hope , @Anastasia , @Former-Member , @Adge , @Smc , @Owlunar , @eth , @Zoe7 , @Determined , @Emelia8 , @Mazarita , @Former-Member , @BPDSurvivor , @BlueBay , @oceangirl , @Sophia1 , @Appleblossom , @Snowie , @outlander , @utopia , @Former-Member

I ammm just feeling sooooo aaawwwwwww at the moment

@Former-Member, mum is saying things but it is her dementia talking really , makes it soo hard

I ammmm needing something but not sure what !!!!!!!!!

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Oh dear @Shaz51 that would be heartbreaking. I'm sorry.

Can I make you a hot cuppa? My boy made brownies and there a piece with the name on it 💞☕

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