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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Have you been able to talk to your mum tonight @Former-Member xxx

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I'll call hospital in the morning @Shaz51 not long heard from SIL, fortunately no fractures, she is only now being taken to the ward and needs to rest.

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How are Mr Shaz & Mum today @Shaz51

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That's is good news about your mum @Former-Member , you must be feeling a bit relieved knowing that

Maybe dehydration, but praying that your mum will feeling better soon

My mum is doing ok , she has ups and downs each day

I am finding that she is easiest to talk to in the mornings but by nighttime she gets confused

Mr shaz is being very quiet since the insurance news where we have to do everything ourselves

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@Faith-and-Hope

@Former-Member mum is in hospital tonight

Like @Zoe7 dad

All need prayers

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🙏 💞 @Shaz51 ....

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Yes @Shaz51 a bit of dehydration. When you say you need to do everything yourself, does that mean arrange demolition/ rebuild?

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Yep demolition and rebuild @Former-Member , soo I am going to be busy this year

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Hello @Former-Member , how is your mum today

I had to go to bed last night , felt soo sick, aching , tired and yuk

Did my diabetes test and it was 14.2 which is verrry high

@Faith-and-Hope , @Emelia8 , @outlander , @Smc , @Bunniekins

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Yikes @Shaz51 hope you can get those levels down.

Mum going to have a couple of assessments done and assuming they will keep her in hospital for these. Some family members are realising just how much she is not coping with (her place is a mess and whilst she regularly washes her smalls, most of her other clothes are in dire need of laundering). We are thinking that she might need to go into respite with a view to remaining in care if opportunity presents.

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