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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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So so sorry dear @Shaz51

Thinking about you x

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OMG @Shaz51

I am sorry to hear about the fire - and really glad that you and Mr Shaz are okay - but to lose everything - that sounds really terrible and I realise this has to be distressing and I can't imagine what it's like or how you get past this. I hope you are insured -

And your Mum is in hospital and being spoiled - yes - I guess she will want you to do the same when she gets out esp if you are living in her house atm

It's a pity about your holiday - I guess this happens to someone now and again - but so disappointing - I hope you are able to replace you important things, clothes and treasures etc asap - but then - there must be things you can never replace

All the best Shaz - so disappointing and distressing - I'm running out of words

Sending love

Dec

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@Owlunar

Yes we are staying at mum's And I still sleeping on mattresses on the floor of the bedroom

Crazy week , had lots of inspectors

Looks like the house will have to be demolished

Can't remember if I have written that before

@Former-Member , Mr shaz went to the doctor, and was told to get in touch with his health team

Ha ha no he going to keep carrying on on his own

@Anastasia , @Faith-and-Hope , @Maggie , @Emelia8 , @Former-Member , @Smc , @Determined

Me , well one foot in front of the other, got a doctor's appointment this week and builder's coming

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❤️ @Shaz51

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@Shaz51 I’m so sorry. It must be awful not having your home. You must be in shock, it’s such a huge loss.

Try to take care of yourself. 💕💕💕

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Thanks @Maggie , @Faith-and-Hope xxx

Glad we have mum's to stay at even though it seems like more work

We are taking 2 weeks off at Christmas time from working

@Owlunar , @Anastasia , @Former-Member

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Feel for you @Shaz51

2 weeks off will be lovely and we'll deserved xxx

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(((((💌 @Shaz51 💌)))))
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Not getting in touch with MH team does not surprise me @Shaz51, a stressful time for you and this is when their support might be helpful.

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Hi @Shaz51

What a devastating situation - losing everything in a house fire - I can't imagine that at all

And it is fortunate you can stay at your mother's house and I have no doubt she is delighted but it will mean more work for you - I understand that - and I also think Mr Shaz won't be all that happy about it. I just hope you have insurance

Also - I am glad you are taking time off from work for a couple of weeks at Christmas - other people do - though it is hard for self-employed people

All the best to Shaz, Mr Shaz - Shaz' mother and poor little kidney - oh deal - you have your transplant surgery to think about too

They say it never rains but it pours - so true

Dec

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