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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Gentle reminder that self care most important at present @Shaz51 keep reaching out.

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Dear @Shaz51 You have so much going on atm, I don't know how you are still standing! You are a

wam of great strength and resilience - someone to be admired.

Im so sorry that you lost everything in the fire - I just can't imagine the devastation. So glad you & your family have each other to get through this very bumpy road ahead.

I didn't mean to highjack your thread, but wanted to let you know I care and will offer whatever support you need - please just reach out, we are all here for you beautiful lady. 🌸💖🌸💖🌸

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Thank you my friend @WIP ❤🧡

Sitting with you my friend too

You are very welcomed to be here xxx

How are you xx

And have you got a thread too

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@Shaz51 wrote:

Thank you @Determined , @Eve7 , @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @BlueBay , @Owlunar , @Emelia8 , @Bunniekins , @Appleblossom , @Anastasia

Lots of inspectors, forensics looking what is left of our house xxx

Sorry I have not been around xx

@Former-Member , @Jupiter


I haven't been modding for a while @Shaz51 so sorry I didn't see this until now. I can't believe this happened and I hope you're managing okay. No apologies needed at all, take care of you 🌻🌻🌻

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Thank you @Former-Member 🥰

Yes it was a big shock , and we are staying at my mum's who is 89

Mr shaz is having lots of ups and down

, Sooo one day at a time here

@WIP , @Former-Member , @Owlunar , @Former-Member , @Emelia8 , @Adge

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💙 @Shaz51 💙

I'm wondering how you're gonna do Christmas now? So I thought I'd donate a wreath for your front door. But then I thought...

why not gift you an entire front door... decorated! 🎀

And then...

I thought...

why don't we all here build you a new Cyber 🏡 Home and donate what we can 🤗

I know @Bunniekins and @Zoe7 would be good. I wonder if anyone else thinks of something wonderful to contribute towards rebuilding your home?? For Christmas day😊

So here's my gift to you... a front door for Christmas 💕

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Yikes @Shaz51 4 days away from home is enough for Mr Darcy, cannot imagine how Mr Shaz would be finding things.

Fabulous @Former-Member count on a bathroom from me Shazzle Dazzle - take note of spa bath and separate shower along with the recommended shower unit.

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@Former-Member @Shaz51 @Former-Member @WIP Hey everyone I dont know if anyone has done this yet but how about a beautiful swimming pool with a spa and sauna :D.

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What a lovely and brilliant idea @Former-Member 🤗💞

I also love all the gifts already donated to our much loved @Shaz51 ... @Bunniekins @Former-Member ... very nice thoughtful ideas, and must haves!

Thought I'd add these .......... a dining room, all ready for Christmas with room for all the extended family to enjoy christmas get togethers. Plus a christmas tree complete with other gifts to meet your immediate needs.

Enjoy @Shaz51 💕🤗 sending you lots of love.

Emelia 🌸

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That's amazing @Emelia8 - dinning room is the core of the home, and @Former-Member's bathroom a must! @Bunniekins swimming pool to relax all the stress away, and maybe a backup water supply should there be another fire 👀(heaven forbid) But I'm worried about you @Shaz51 that you might not like this idea?? Just trying to add something light to the charcoal. Let us know if you mind. Where are you up to with it all. Did you salvage important paperwork? or anything. Gosh so stressful, majorly inconvenient! Just don't neglect your health issues. Hard to remember things like nutrition and stress management with such major upheaval... gosh, it must be 100 times worse than moving. Anyways, hope you ok?
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