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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Unknown userMember21 Nov 2020, 5:44 pm AEDT

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See how it goes @Shaz51 opportunity for a litmus test as to whether or not this could be sustained for the long term (as has been previously raised).

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Eve7Senior Contributor21 Nov 2020, 6:29 pm AEDT

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Big hugs for you @Shaz51 I am sorry you have so much happening at once.

I’ll put the kettle on and make you a cuppa.

Take care and remember to breathe!

💙☕️💙

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DeterminedSenior Contributor25 Nov 2020, 5:23 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51

Thinking of you and trust all went as well as possible with insurance people.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor26 Nov 2020, 2:12 pm AEDT

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Thank you @Determined , @Eve7 , @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @BlueBay , @Owlunar , @Emelia8 , @Bunniekins , @Appleblossom , @Anastasia

Lots of inspectors, forensics looking what is left of our house xxx

Sorry I have not been around xx

@Former-Member , @Jupiter

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DeterminedSenior Contributor26 Nov 2020, 2:16 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51 that sounds intense 😬:nauseated_face:

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Emelia8Senior Contributor26 Nov 2020, 2:27 pm AEDT

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Hoping investigations into the fire are progressing @Shaz51 . And that you and Mr Shaz are managing okay at your Mums home. Are you still sleeping on a mattress on the floor? 😱

Goodness me, do not apologise for not having been around these last few days. You have far more important issues to think about and attend to, than being here. 💖

Emelia 🌷

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MDTSenior Contributor26 Nov 2020, 3:02 pm AEDT

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@Shaz51 I had to re-read your post on my thread and come here to see it. I had no idea my awesome friend.

I'm really sorry this happened. I hope you are safe and okay. That is A LOT to process.

Stay safe and I hope they get some answers for you

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MaggieSenior Contributor26 Nov 2020, 3:22 pm AEDT