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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Ohh @Former-Member

The hardest thing is not sure what to do yet

We have 3 people coming on Tuesday to have a look

One has not to touch anything else

But the wasted food in freezer and fridge wish we can put in bin for Monday pickup

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Perhaps ring the insurance company and ask them @Shaz51 you might need to take photos.

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Yes we have taken some photos of things too @Former-Member

But I will ring and ask

Hope you are ok and Mr Darcy xx

Mum could be allowed home on Monday, she is being spoilt up there and wanting me to do the same when she comes home

My poor Mr polar bear Mr shaz does not like me being away but he does tell me what is worrying him when I come back-- overwhelming questions I must say

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Omg I am so sorry to read this @Shaz51 i had no idea. I feel for you so much. And your mum is in hodpital. Is she ok?
I'm glad to know you're both not injured but the emotional pain of losing everything

I am so sorry my sis ❤️❤️
I now wish I knew earlier

BB xxoo

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@Shaz51 I can imagine that the anxiety levels would be up 😵.

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Thank you for the hugs my sister xoxo @BlueBay

Ohh yes @Former-Member xx

Mr shaz wants to do things , soo hard to take one step at a time

We cancelled this weekend getaway for another time xccxx

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Can imagine that things will take time especially now we are getting close to Christmas @Shaz51 .

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@Shaz51 thinking of you and Mr Shaz as you process all of this.

Trust things go as smoothly as they can when your mum comes home. And insurance process goes smoothly also.

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❤️ @Shaz51

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@Faith-and-Hope , @Determined , @Former-Member , @BlueBay , @Emelia8

Mum was allowed home today as we are staying at her place

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