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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Thank you @Eve7 , @Former-Member , @Adge , @outlander , @BlueBay , @Emelia8 , @Determined , @Smc , @Bunniekins , @Appleblossom , @Owlunar

Mum is feeling a bit better today

I think the heat go to her as it was 34 degrees up here yesterday

She thought I was not coming in today so I surprised her which made her happy

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Glad your mum is a little better tiday @Shaz51

The heat can affect the elderly very quickly

hope you're ok take care my sis

xxxooo

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I am soo glad to tag and see you my sister @BlueBay xoxo

Love seeing you around xx

Hope you are ok too

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Not good tonight sis @Shaz51

I'm crying

it's a year that MIL passed away

I'm sorry I need to go

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Pleased to hear your mum is a bit better and that you were able to visit @Shaz51

💜💜

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Ohhhh hugs my darling sister @BlueBay

💖♥️❤💜💚💛🧡💙

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@Shaz51 Hey my sister So happy your mother is doing better today. I felt ill yesterday (monday) it was super hot. No wonder your poor mother felt the heatxxx.

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Hi @Shaz51

I'm sending my best thoughts for you and your Mum

Yes - the heat gets to me more now - and here it turned from winter into summer while I was in hospital.

If your Mum is happy reading at night and sleeping during the afternoon then she has good company - I often do the same - though I like to watch Star Trek in the afternoon and often miss it napping

You must remember to take care of yourself too Shaz - you might feel as if you are last but you are caring for 2 other people as well and need to rest when you can

Dec

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hello @Former-Member , @Eve7 , @Bunniekins , @Owlunar , @Emelia8 , @Anastasia , @Smc , @Appleblossom , @Faith-and-Hope

mum is in hospital this afternoon

keeping her in for a couple of days

got this weekend booked for a anniversary getaway , but now ?????

I know mum will be upset if we don`t go !!!!!!!!!!

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Ohhh noooo ... sorry that your Mum is obviously unwell ... thus needing to be in hospital @Shaz51

Hmmmm ... it is bad timing. A couple of days in hospital means she comes out on Friday? Any chance you could ask them to keep her in a couple of extra days? That way you could go away for your anniversary weekend, and not have to worry about your Mum while gone. Perhpas your Mum may be agreeable to this too? I know she would want you to get away for a couple of days. Its hard I know. But even as a carer for your Mum, you do still need to take some time out for yourself. She knows that. See what you can do perhaps?

Emelia 🌺

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