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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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thinking of you my @Bow xxxx

yes we should listen to our bodies xxx

thank you my sister @BlueBay , my mum , my uncle eldest sister is very upset xx

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@Shaz51 are you feeling that you get a new diagnosis at each doctor's visit?

Looking for those moments of joy as we navigate through our grief.

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Yes @Former-Member , and new meds when I see the specialists

I know I should get it checked out

I see the specialist has done my blood tests form for December ans have new things written down

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Having regular medication reviews might be helpful @Shaz51 particularly if you are dealing with a number of different specialists.

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Yep , I usually have one at the chemist too

@Former-Member

Hope you are ok and Mr Darcy xx

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my mum has being very tired today and sleeping soooo much today , now she has had dinner and a shower and is going back to bed xxx

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Hope you and mr shaz are going ok too @Shaz51 and are managing some rest when you can too

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Oh @Shaz51 Me too, like your Mum.

I could not go back to Bed, as I was working (with Clients).

I did not think that I could last the Distance (Day).

I'm having to drive 100Km every day (for work) - I am not Being Paid for my Kms (or use of my car), either.

Adge

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@Shaz51 my mum regularly sleeps most of the afternoon but I think she often stays up reading at night.

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Hi @Shaz51 I hope your mum is ok. Please look after you 💙

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