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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Sending love @Shaz51

I think Em has the right idea if you can? ❣️

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Yes I am sure we can keep mum in until we get home @Emelia8

I will see and ask tomorrow my sister

Yes it came on quickly today but now she is sleeping and relaxed with no pain xxx

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Going to ask tomorrow my @Anastasia

See what happens xxx xxx

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Fingers crossed for you @Shaz51

Will keep you in my thoughts 🌷

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I agree with @Emelia8 too @Shaz51 , if Mum's condition is stable and she can stay in hospital it is a good opportunity for you to get a mini break whole she is being looked after.

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sounds good @Former-Member , still feel a bit guilty

but if she has respite in hospital it will feel better then if she is at home

we did it last year when she ended up in hospital 2 days before we went to Darwin , and they kept her there for the week while we were away

makes you feel a bit better knowing that mum is being cared for xxx

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Yikes @Shaz51 you want a second honeymoon, not a guilt trip ...

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Ha ha it shows that I need a holiday @Former-Member

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Hello @Shaz51

How's your Mum hun?

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Mum Is feeling a bit better today , they are keeping mum in for a few days

Also we had a fire in our house this morning

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