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Not sure what to do !!!

Shaz51Senior Contributor16 Mar 2019, 7:17 pm AEDT

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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Shaz51Senior Contributor25 Apr 2019, 7:43 am AEST

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mum has told me too @Former-Member , but not had a turn yet

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Unknown userMember25 Apr 2019, 7:55 am AEST

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@Shaz51 😀

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Unknown userMember27 Apr 2019, 3:01 pm AEST

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@Shaz51

Have any plans been made as yet in relation to Mum and your holiday?

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Shaz51Senior Contributor27 Apr 2019, 3:14 pm AEST

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yes it will be the last week of transition care when we go @Former-Member

so my aunty and cousin are going to drop in every day

and mum says " i will be fine by myself for a week "

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Unknown userMember27 Apr 2019, 5:55 pm AEST

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Lovely it is all organised @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor27 Apr 2019, 7:33 pm AEST

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a bit worried about mum`s mind @Former-Member so is my aunty

so will wait until after the week away

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Unknown userMember27 Apr 2019, 7:42 pm AEST

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What's happening @Shaz51 ?

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Apr 2019, 7:43 pm AEST

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here for you too @Shaz51

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Shaz51Senior Contributor27 Apr 2019, 8:16 pm AEST

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when mum arrived home from hospital , they sent a letter for mum to go to the memory clinic but she cancelled it and threw the letter away @outlander , @Former-Member

she was acting confused at hospital but I thought it was just the days and hours running into each other

at home she is getting confused and now she leaves the tv on and all the lights on

she is saying things and Ihave to explain things again for her

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outlanderSenior Contributor27 Apr 2019, 8:18 pm AEST

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hey @Shaz51 your mum sounds similar to how my pop is. I hope she will agree to go to the memory clinic to get assessed for some more help.
its quite concerning when we notice these sorts of things isnt it

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