Not sure what to do !!!

I think soo @Faith-and-Hope

@outlander, @Bea , @Former-Member , mum has 3 weeks left of the transition care to go and then that is it

@Shaz51 Hi Shaz51 sounds a hell of a day..... why is the physio so dead set on your mother using a stick when she is happy with the walker? Is this the same physio that wanted your mum to go to the pool?

Perhaps time to check and see if things like meals on wheels could be continued @Shaz51

Sometimes I wonder @Shaz51

Your mother is 88 and has a bowel obstruction for which she has had countless operations and it has been suggested she goes to a swimming pool 30 minutes drive away - and she told the physio and the person had it all "planned" - I am glad your Mum spoke up - and I don't think a swimming pool would be fun for me actually - ah woe is me - I am sorry it the plans were not going to work - truly - but that's asking a lot for an older person

Using a walking stick would be a harder issue - perhaps your Mum needs to speak up some more - it must be nerve-wracking watching her battle

We are all entitled to our opinions - and we are entitled - we even need to speak up - I can understand your Mum wanting to stick with the walker - she must be feeling safer with the mobile support with a handy seat right there. She is so independent naturally if she wants to stick with the walker being so independent she need tp say so - very hard for her to give up I can tell

And you felt sick while you were cooking - my guess this isn't a symptom of pregnancy - so maybe it's your gall-bladder - or stress from all the visitors your Mum had - or something else - which you don't need

This is your second Mum saying take it easy - I'm glad you had time off over Easter - today it was raining - and you had custard tarts with your Mum - that sounds good

All the best Shaz - this is not an easy time for you and it has been going on with on-going stressors

Thinking off you

Dec

yes @Bunniekins , same one and next week she is getting mum to go down town in her buggy

yes all in hand @Former-Member --- meals on wheels to be continued, my aged care has arranged protein drinks , alarm system and other things which mum will need which is good

thanks my second Mum @Owlunar

mum will end up doin what she wants to do xx

maybe it's your gall-bladder - or stress from all the visitors your Mum had - or something else - which you don't need -- very true ,I also have hiatus hernia and pain in the kidney area xx

early to bed i think

pregnancy-- wouldn`t that be the biggest surprise ever

@Shaz51 in her buggy? is that a motorised scooter?

yes @Bunniekins a motorised scooter,but I think mum is just wanting to stay home xx

Do you ever take Mum's buggy for a spin @Shaz51 ?

@Shaz51 a motorised scooter is a huge step .... I don't blame your mother just wanting to stay at home All of this must be such a worry for you Shaz51 😞