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Not sure what to do !!!

Not sure what to do !!!

Got a question , a problem , kind of ?? @Former-Member , @Appleblossom , @outlander , @Determined , @Faith-and-Hope , @Jacques , @PeppiPatty , @Owlunar , @Sophie1 , @Sophia1

unsure what to do as mum has been in hospital for nearly 4 weeks so far after her hip surgery and as well as having reoccurring bowel obstructions

mr shaz and my cousins think my mum is scared of going back to her house

been getting the house rearranged and sorted for her to come back home

I have been visiting her everyday and sometimes I wonder if she is developing dementain

got a transistion appt to develope a home plan for the near future , I am asking my aunty to be there with me

I sometimes think she is not ready to go home

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What does Mum think about it @Shaz51

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ha mum just told them @Former-Member and they said " ohhh i had it all planned " xx

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@Shaz51

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hello @outlander , @Former-Member , @Bea , @Determined , @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Adge , @Smc , @Bunniekins , @Owlunar

well what a day

no work today because of rain

I spendt the morning with mum

had custard tarts for morning tea

we had the plumber come

and the carpenter came

and then 3 ladies of mum`s transtition team came

and meals on wheels

and then mum`s physio came and got mum to see if she can use a stick for walking , I felt sooo sick in the somach watching , soo bad , think I was having a anxiety attack , panic attack -- wow

did a fews running around jobs

went home for lunch and I was worn out for the afternoon

glad it was raining as I felt sooo sick

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that is a big day @Shaz51
im sorry you had an anxiety attack, they are bloody awful. i hope your looking after yourself now xox
doesnt sound like your mums helpers are listening to you either in what you thinks best for her. does your mum feel more comfortable with a walking frame rather than a walking stick?

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much more comfortable with a walker @outlander , but mum will do what she wants

I am feeling totally sick while cooking -- maybe it is my gall bladder playing up

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@Shaz51 sounded like a crazy busy day ut very productive! Those sort of days entitle me I say) to a rest day next 🙂

What do you think was behind the feeling sick? Worn out? Or was it upsetting to see Mum with a walking stick? That's progress from a wheeler, yes? Was it something else?

How are you feeling now?

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very yukky @Bea

wondering if my gall bladder is playing up xx

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LOL they can be quite stubborn sometimes cant they!
perhaps she has to be the one to say she would prefer a walker.
Anxieties ot lasting effects sometimes though @Shaz51 panic attacks while they arent happening right now they do tend to have that lasting nauseous effect. perhaps try a dry buscuit while cooking and see if that helps settle things abit..

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Hugs @Shaz51 . Sounds like you need to rest for a bit .....

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