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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Morning @Silenus,
Yes I too was wondering if you are ok.
..in mind wanted to send you something..of small utterances.. as I drifted off to other places of my mind.
I did miss hearing your views.
Glad you are back.
Sorry for your loss, grief does odd things & ironically I can relate to your hypomania period after her death.
I felt like this when my father passed..which eventually spiralled places I hope to never see again.
Nice to hear you..wishing you a calm day ❤☺

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Just another day in the life...

Hahaha...

Thanks peeps... you guys and gals rock...

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😉🙋💫🎶@Silenus

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I find writing really cathartic. I've started writing a blog that I hope makes others feel they are not alone. It's about my journey as a single bipolar mum. If you want to check out my story Https://2angelsandablackdog.wordpress.com
I'd love to read your comments, experience & insights too.

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I will read it @2angels...once I got a free proper moment! My little man is pulling my cupboards apart...sigh! 😏😂

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@Silenus - The piece you wrote on BiPolar - I live it.

Sadly all too true.
The depths and heights. The abrading thoughts. Carborundum. Carborundum.

Thanks you for putting that out here.

You said also about the disclosure of family secrets "I can process it and deal with it... this is not beyond me..."

The skeletons rattling away in everone's closets clack their jaws, rattle their bones and jarr my life often.

This secret I have kept - that is not a secret, but forgotten, buried, these things that people tell us, the minimisation or the explanations trying to minismise what someone else did... Oh, this happened to them, did you know? Well, yes I did but that doesn;t give them licence to be awful.

I hope you can process it, maybe it doesn;t need processing, maybe despite the ObSeSsIvE cOmPuLsIvE dIsOrDeR... that Replay. Replay. Replay... of the worst things people say and do and our own disOrdeRed thoughts... or perhaps reOrDer it. Re-oRder it. What has happened, what they told you, maybe letting it go, sending it off in a leaky boat out to sea and watching it sink beloew the waves, might be the best way of 'dealing and processing".

Or instead of REPLAY. Press the STOP and OFF buttons...

It is a shattering thing this lived life with bipolar, OcD and other co morbidities. all of them like a Huge Gift Basket wrapped in a funereal shroud. Unpacked and unwilling a gift we accept it because we have no choice. But we DO have a choice once a thought is caught - once the thoughts that reverberate around our cavernous minds... once we catch one, like a fluttering bat, we can choose to let it go. If we can.

Overseas travel inevitably throws me into Mania - the time zones, the sleep differences, the bodily function changes... all of it - I am awhirlled by it. Re-establishing sleep pattern is paramount to reestablishing calmer thought pattern.

I hope the next days are a wind down to a comfort-Able Level for you.

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@Silenus... My poem which was my first post here to Sane Forum last year.

On Living with Bi Polar...

My hope for all of us today...

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🙏💜💙🌌❤ gently goes it...
Reminds me as I wake, second go rounds today...when I see still the faces I didn't want to see today, I still see..
I will burn some incense..my reminder thanks @MoonGal...
Hope your day travels calmly ...so as to you @BlueBay, @Silenus...
..this mess that sometimes this life we are in...

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@2angels - have read your first posts on your blog. I hope your life with Gracie is full of Grace and hope. You have had a rough start together, but I read the LOVE shining through and I am so glad your Mother is there beside you. Holding you both. Be the mother you want to be. ❤️

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@2angels I also read your blog posts last night.
As a mother, I can only imagine how challenging some early on aspects were for you.
My heart goes out to you, your little family & mother...how amazing you have her love and support.
The beach photo is :ok_hand:..
I sometimes think the mothers who face such difficulties,make the most well rounded, human parents, for they know what it is...
.. To truely live every motion, every feeling of a day. ❤..
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