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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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No @Faith-and-Hope my psych or my therapist haven't read any of my poems. Maybe I will print them all out and paste them in a book for each of them to read.

I know my therapist who i saw today says that i am too negative in my journaling which sometimes he is right. but it's the only way i can talk by writing it down. And he thinks that poetry would be the same. But I disagree with him, because i don't know where the words for that last poem came from but it just all came out. There was no time for thinking of words, as i was typing it just came.

Yes this is really difficult and emotinal poem. It is painful, hurtful and i think this has been on my mind for a while but now it has escalated to my crisis this week.

that's why i can't reconcile again, not now because i don't want to go through all that crap again with my mum. and i know that if we did talk again she would 'pretend' that things are back to normal. she wouldn't even discuss our issues we've had. she would wipe them off and things would be fine.

But i can't do that; not now and maybe not ever. i don't know.i am not going to be verally abused, emotinoally attacked and yelled at again. I've been hurt twice by her actions and I am too vulnerable and emotinally wrecked to go back.

You know one part of me says 'stuff it i am an adult now, if they don't want to see me it's there bad luck' - but another part of me is screaming, crying, punching, wanting attention, misses my dad so much, hates my mum and feels abandoned, rejected, kicked in the guts by the people who are supposed to love and support me. my parents - i don't know anymore what to think.

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Maybe try not to overthink it @BlueBay, and simply accept that it's there for now ....

You are allowed to feel what you feel .... I would like to suggest to you that you keep yourself aware of the fact that you are also allowed to feel, to experience, new and beaufptiful things too ....

When you feel Jersey's coat, be mindful of how soft and warm she feels.

When you see the sunlight sparkling off the waves down at the beach, notice how beautiful that is to your eyes.

Feel, really feel, the cold wind on your face as you walk, the wind whipping your hair .... be in the moment .... feel what you feel in that moment .... allow other experiences like these simple pleasures of life into your mind and heart too. Let your life be big enough for these experiences too, because they are important ... they keep you connected to the here and now, and to the peopl who love you and care about you.

As @Former-Member says, pick up an ice lock and squeeze it in your hand. Feel how cold it is, the shape of it, and how you can't just break it. Look at the things in the space around you and notice where you are. Whether you are warm or cold .... notice your breathing .....

Don't think too much about it. Let your tired mind just notice things, and rest, breathing slowly and calmly, and just rest your spirit a bit in these quiet moments. It's about you being you, in the here and now.

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I feel so down tonight thoughts of ending it all on my mind. Too much going on in my head. Challenging thoughts. I'm so tired I'm going to bed. Life is so hard at times
Have to not listen to my head.
Maybe if I self harm I will go to hospital. I'm not thinking right. Bed for me self soothe rock myself to sleep. I need to feel the rocking. It's so dumb.

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Sounds like rocking yourself to sleep is the best thing to do in this state of mind @BlueBay ....

💜💕

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As I lay in my hospital bed<br>I try to heal my aching heart<br>For all my life I've never felt right<br>I wish one day my life will be bright<br><br>The tears the moods and sleepy times<br>It says a lot for their crimes<br>But now I'm here and having a rest<br>I'll try and do my best<br><br>It's lonely here with no one to talk to<br>I cover my curtain around my bed<br>I cocoon myself in my bed<br>And this is my space my safety place<br><br>I know the staff are caring beings<br>I just wish they could take away what seems<br>A lifetime of pain hurt and tears<br>That I've had for many many years<br><br>So I take this rest for now<br>Cause I don't know when I'll leave<br>Let's hope my Pysch can see<br>What my life has been<br><br>I wish no one has to go through<br>What I've had with being so blue<br>For if I could take away the pain<br>I know what I would gain<br><br>The tears are flowing now again<br>I thinks it's time for sleep again<br>So sleep tight my dear friends<br>It's bye from me. Xxxx

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Hi @BlueBay

I have found you a virtual cosy corner to curl up into .... I hope you like it ....

I hope you get some quality sleep tonight .... ❤️💕

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Thank you @faithandhope.
I love it.
Goodnight. I'm getting tired again.
Hope your night is a good one.
Chat soon. Xxxooo

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Goodnight @BlueBay ❤️💕

I hope you're feeling a bit better in the morning.

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Hey, now ya over here, i get dizzy jumping around the threads lol 😄

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Hi @Former-Member 😊

I'm following the email notifications mostly ....

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