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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Thanks @Silenus. Here goes ..........

IN TO ME SEE

My lovers are my books.

I sleep with them you know.

They never give me dirty looks

or interrupt my flow.

They really truly ruly are

the best of company

and they help me love me.

_______________________________

And another ..............

I'm tired

tired of fearing my feelings

tired of having to care

tired of not feeling trust anywhere

tired of feeling abandoned

tired of self-sabotage

tired of panic at random

tired of only just managing to manage

how long does it take to be happy?

how long is a piece of string?

tired of life being crappy

recovery a timeless thing

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Re: Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Great poems @eth - I love the concept of a book as a lover (to tumble with under the covers... hahaha).

I really feel the I'm Tired poem. Beautiful last line...

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Thanks @Silenus have spent a couple of hours looking at my writing and am feeling soooo stirred up. Most of it isn't really relevant to this MI forum, but about social justice, communication issues, and a lot of my personal history. And I was obviously in a really chaotic manic state when I did a lot of it. Need to take a break from it now but will look some more over coming days for appropriate pieces. I'm kind of hoping that doing this will get me to take up the pen again. Thanks for the inspiration.

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My pleasure @eth

Yeah, I've got lots of "ranty" poems about social (in)justice. I'm holding those back from here, as they aren't really appropriate or relevant. They help me to vent my anger, my impotent rage at all the dumb bad things humans do to each other, but otherwise those poems don't really solve anything...

I used to get so angry at the world of humans. It was one of my biggest triggers. I've divested myself emotionally from it all now, though. All that blood boiling was getting me nowhere fast... 🙂

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"Ranty" - great word. That's exactly how a lot of what I read by me today seemed. I used to be a dedicated activist in green and land-rights areas mostly but anything could get me fired up when it came to social (in)justice as you call it. These days my kid calls me a 'lounge room activist' as I do it mostly on-line. I'm nowhere near as angry but also I was beaten up really badly for some of my actions in a particular area and I'm just not prepared to be on the front line any more. A lot of my writing was also done when I had extreme complex PTSD as well as undiagnosed bipolar. The PTSD isn't triggered as often any more. Thanks for helping me see today that this is also partly why I've written less. I just need to find new inspiration and a gentler way of writing.

SOAR IN PEACE

Laugh and cry

Live to fly

But keep earthed

Don't get too high

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A "gentler way of writing". Amen to that... 🙂

You and I seem to have a lot of common themes that we grapple with in our bipolar poems... I love Soar In Peace. Says it all, really...

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Poem - Facing Off

This poem is all about those masks we wear, and about bipolar opposites...

Facing Off

Two masks facing off against each other,
Trying to work out why there’s so much bother;
One mask smiles, the other one cries,
Both masks look for the truth behind the lies.

The faceless faces, hidden by anonymity,
Discarded in lost and found, captured but free;
Where oh where do we take it from here?
Somewhere midway between bravery and fear.

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I really like and resemble that last one @Silenus

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Thanks for the hugs @Silenus and @eth

I could really do with some more hugs tonight.

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mind is racing quickly to one million

and just as quickly back to naught

intangible ungraspable alien

my train of thought

has left the station

i chase along the rails

without hesitation

it never fails

to confound me completely

to lose myself to my imagination

how well it beats me

theres tangents of long passed conversation

mixed with a world of my creation

lyrics poems and in all the rest

get it out i try my best

try as i might it just keeps flowing see

but writing is my form of therapy

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