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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Thank you for your kind words @eth 🙂

That's interesting what you say about your motivation and inspiration to write. There appears to be very strong links with mental health issues such as bipolar, and the creative "spark".

Kay Redfield Jamison wrote a great book titled "Touched with Fire: Manic-Depressive Illness and the Artistic Temperament". It's a great read, exploring the prevalence of bipolar in artistic people...

My inspiration to write comes and goes. Years ago, I had a 6-year dry spell where I hardly wrote a thing...

About 4 years ago, I made a decision that my true calling was as a writer. Since then, I have worked hard at my writing, even on days when I feel no motivation or inspiration to do so. That approach has worked quite well for me...

If I may ask @eth - do you miss writing?

Thanks for caring, and for posting in my little self-indulgent thread... hahaha...

Hugs and happy vibes beaming your way... 🙂

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Thank you kindly Cap'n ( @GonePirate ). I am very much enjoying trawling through my poems and writing short introductions to them. It's amazing how easy it is to revisit the state(s) of mind I was in when I wrote the poems. It's like when you remember exactly where you were and what you were doing when a particular song was playing, you know?

Hugs, brotherman... 🙂

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Maybe I shld write my life story then run away. I can't do this anymore. Facing my fears is too hard. I need a hand to help me get through this. Writing is my only help

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Hi @Silenus I do miss writing. I also made a committment to being a poet for several years and was planning to publish. Put my favourite pieces together and sent them to my favourite uncle who is very literary and got no feedback whatsoever. It was a major disappointment. I think it was hard for him to relate to works about bipolar and such. Maybe one of these days I'll dig some of my pieces out and put them on here like you have. Writing is such good therapy but at the moment my urge is satisfied by being in these forums.

I really like how you don't feel obliged to make everything rhyme. I'm like that too. I do like to work rhythm in when I can.

I agree that over history many of the world's creative people have had bipolar. It's well documented now.

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I can relate, @eth - I gave my parents a copy of my poetry years ago. Despite both of them being keen readers, neither of them ever read my stuff...

Poetry especially is often very personal, and not many people tend to read it any more...

I self published a book of my poetry (290-odd pages) and a book of my philosophical writings - my wisdoms. So far, one mate and two relatives have bought a copy of each... hahaha...

Not exactly the response I was expecting. I thought at least 5 or 10 of my mates would have supported my art, even if none of them ever read the books, so the response was pretty underwhelming...

I comfort myself with the fact that I write purely for my own enjoyment (and compulsion), and if anyone else can be bothered to read it and likes it, that's a huge bonus...

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Sorry to hear that about your books @Silenus but I like your healthy attitude about writing for yourself.

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Please don't run away @BlueBay, we are here for you and each other in these forums. I think writing your life story is a good idea, it might really help you and you might even remember some of the better times along the way. Maybe you could start a thread for your life story and mention me so I see it. Thinking of you and concerned about you. Do you have anyone to talk to? Could lifeline be helpful if you are really down? They have helped me in the past.

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Hang in there @BlueBay 🙂

Sending hugs and supportive gentle vibes...

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Hi again @Silenus I was inspired by our chat to get out 'me pomes 'n' tomes' as I call them and have a look. Not sure whether to put a couple on here or if you'd prefer me to start a separate thread. Let me know please.

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Mi casa su casa @eth - I would be honoured if you posted your writing in this thread. Writing is for everyone. All are welcome to write here with equal voice... 🙂
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